Some very personal thoughts on marriage

By Charlie Smith, Charleston

My cousin Wil sent me a YouTube clip today of Keith Olbermann making some observations about how marriage has dramatically changed in this country. Olbermann talks about how on Nov. 4, 2008 we elected a president whose parents at the time of his birth were legally unable to marry in 16 of our 50 states. On this same day, a majority of the citizens of California decided to relegate gay and lesbian people to that same station in life in which Barack Obama’s parents were forced to live just 47 years ago when the soon-to-be leader of the free world was born.

Olbermann’s comments reminded me of something that I don’t think I have ever revealed in public about myself. Something in fact that I have rarely ever mentioned privately even to my parents and sisters. In 1993 my partner of six years, a very handsome and wonderful man whom some of you knew, asked me to marry him. I did not know what to say when I heard those words. I wasn’t necessarily opposed to the idea, but I’d just never really thought that anyone would ask me that question. Why would someone? I mean I’m a guy…and guys were the askers, not the askees…and I knew that I would likely never be asking anyone…at least in the sense that the target of that question would be a woman. I did not know what to say to him, so I said what I always said when my partner asked me to do something that was obviously important to him…I said “Of course I will!”

My next big surprise came when I discovered that Carlos did not intend for us to have a small private ceremony with a handful of our closest friends as I had envisioned. He wanted us to join 2600 other couples in front of the IRS Building in Washington, D.C on April 24, 1993, during the March on Washington to be married by the Reverend Troy Perry, Founder of the Metropolitan Community Church. This was the wedding that became known at the time as the largest same-sex wedding demonstration and celebration in history. And so on that crisp Saturday morning in our nation’s capital we donned our Sunday finest and did just that.

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Trigger-Happy Thanksgiving, y’all

The South Carolina legislators who passed the measure call it the “Second Amendment Sales Tax Holiday.” Thinking people would call it pandering of the worst kind.

Just today The Greenville News reported that, according to the FBI, South Carolina is the most violent state in the nation.

Instead of a tax break for food, or gas, or products to help protect the environment, we get a tax break on guns. Seriously. Beginning at midnight Nov. 28 and ending at midnight Nov. 30, South Carolinians can save money while they beef up their arsenals.

It’s not like they needed the incentive. There has been a run on guns since Barack Obama was elected president, amid fears that he and a Democrat-controlled Congress will pass stricter gun laws.

Apparently, you can take the cowboy out of the White House, but not out of the American household.

Becci Robbins

Network member’s guest column featured in Washington Post

This essay appeared in today’s Washington Post. It was written by Herb Silverman, founder of SC Progressive Network member group Secular Humanists of the Lowcountry.

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For Secular Americans, Lip Service Beats No Service
By Herb Silverman

About a month before this recent election, some local progressives in South Carolina asked if I would help Democrat Linda Ketner in her Congressional campaign against conservative incumbent Republican Henry Brown. At first they thought I was joking when I said I didn’t even plan to vote for her, and would leave blank that portion of my ballot. They ticked off a number of issues on which Ketner was better than her opponent. I agreed, even adding a couple of my own. My problem with Ketner was a 30-second TV ad in which she proclaimed her love of God three times.

I have gradually begun withdrawing support from otherwise acceptable candidates who make personal religious beliefs a focal point of their campaigns. In taking a longer view, I described how the Religious Right moved beyond merely saving souls to becoming a formidable political force. My friends discounted this reasoning. The Religious Right may have been thrown a few crumbs by politicians, they said, but mainly all they have received in return for their support is lip service. When my companions asked if I, an atheist, would settle for so little, I replied without hesitation: “YES! We’ll take lip service!”

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Election Protection hotline logs over 1,000 calls in South Carolina

Calls to the SC Election Protection hotline from voters reporting problems came in at nearly one a minute on Election Day.

“We logged a total of 1,034 calls by 8pm,” said SC Election Protection field manager Brett Bursey. “That’s more that double the number made in the 2004 and 2006 election combined.” More than half the calls came in on Election Day. Charleston County led the state with 131 problems reported. Greenville and Richland counties each logged 83 calls, and Spartanburg had 56.

Spartanburg County Election Commission Director Henry Laye was the hardest to reach of the county directors. Laye allowed a Republican poll watcher to challenge black voters’ reasons for voting absentee, which made long lines even longer. On Nov. 4, Spartanburg had some of the longest lines, with voters waiting up to five hours. Two precincts reported people in line three hours after the polls closed.

The National Election Protection Coalition of nonpartisan advocacy groups staffed call centers around the country that logged 43,207 calls. Calls were posted by state on the organization’s web site, and volunteer legal advisors in South Carolina followed up with phone calls to voters to help them resolve problems.

Nearly 200 calls were from voters who were not listed on the poll books. Most were newly registered and never received their cards. Many of these people were turned away and not given the opportunity – as required by law – to vote a provisional ballot.

It was clear from the calls that counties are not consistent in interpreting the election laws. “Counties make their own rules, and laws are what the poll workers think they are,” said one frustrated legal volunteer.

The SC Progressive Network will be holding town meeting across the state to gather citizens’ input on their experiences voting in an effort to our work to pass legislation next session to improve voting procedures and practices in South Carolina. The Network introduced legislation in 2006 for Early Voting Centers and other reforms that would have reduced both the lines and the stress on poll workers. For details on these bills, click here

If you have a story to tell about problems voting, please email it to network@scpronet.com. Be sure to include your name, contact information, location of problem and whether it was resolved.

The long road to the White House

The 2008 campaign for president was exhausting. But what an ending!

I saw Barack Obama speak twice in Columbia, once at the Convention Center and again at Williams Brice Stadium, when Oprah was stumping for him. Last night, I was in the Stadium again, this time with friends at a party watching the election returns. The mood was electric.

Here’s a look back. And forward.

Becci Robbins

It’s Election Day…

Surprise!

By Becci Robbins

The phones have been ringing steadily in the SC Progressive Network‘s office today. We’ve been working with the national Election Protection Coalition, which is staffing a hotline to provide free legal assistance to voters with problems at the polls. As of 5:30pm, the hotline has logged 36,513 reports, 480 in South Carolina. We will provide details about the reports once we’ve had time to review them and complete follow-up phone calls. For now, suffice it to say that election workers were not prepared to handle the unprecedented turnout.

It’s not like they didn’t know Election Day was coming. The large number of new voters was no surprise, either. So it’s been frustrating to watch the process over the last couple of weeks. The Get Out The Vote work we’d intended to do was delayed because election offices were so backed up that new registrations hadn’t been entered into the database. And the long lines of people trying to vote absentee bordered on abusive, with some waiting more than four hours to cast a ballot.

When I voted yesterday, in Lexington County, the wait was over two hours. The gentleman in front of me was using a cane and, worried that he wouldn’t be able to handle standing for such a long time, I went to see if he could use the curbside machines set aside for folks with physical disabilities. I was told that the person who brought him would have to wait in line, and then the machine would be brought out. He drove himself, I told them, so what was he to do? They said he could take advantage of a wheelchair parked by the front door.

It’s hard to understand why the county was so ill-prepared to deal with the needs of such voters – especially since among the reasons people can vote absentee in South Carolina is if they are disabled or over 65. The problems in Lexington were not isolated, as I watched people drive up for curbside voting in Columbia and, when nobody came out to help them, they drove off without voting. I also watched seniors stack up by the door to the election office, where there were chairs, with nobody coming out to advise them.

Clearly, we can do better. The Network is working to make sure that we do. We plan to revisit legislation we introduced last session to make it easier to vote. (For details on those bills, click here.) And we are going to hold town hall meetings in the coming weeks so South Carolinians can tell their stories and share ideas about how to improve election process in the Palmetto State.

In the meantime, if you had a problem at the polls, please make a report to the Election Protection hotline: 1-866-OUR-VOTE. That data will be used to inform legislative and procedural remedies for future elections.

Finally, thanks to everyone who volunteered today and in the days leading up to the election. Thanks, too, to all the voters who braved long lines to vote. Let’s hope that sort of faith in democracy is contagious.